From The Desk Of Chris McLean
Lockdown Part 4
Hey, can we get real for a moment? Like, #realtalk real...
Any chance the following scenario sounds familiar?
You’re making progress towards your goals, ultra consistent, stacking wins, growing in confidence & enthusiasm and then...
You derail yourself.
Money problems, binge eating, procrastination, shirking responsibilities—whatever it is—we’ve all tripped ourselves up en route to our goals.
And nothing sucks more than that awful feeling of "WTF just happened!?"
Self-sabotage is real my friend, and it's frustrating as hell.
While there may be deeper psychological issues going on, what helps my clients with self-sabotage is understanding that it stems from your deepest subconscious programming & it's therefore something that can be fixed...
...before it festers into full blown anxiety, stagnation or fear.
The aim of the game is having a default set of habits and practices you can flawlessly call upon at any time you need that superhuman boost of motivation, confidence or hardcore focus.
As the ancient Greek poet Archilocus reckoned, "We don't rise to the level of our expectations, we fall to the level of our training."
What old mate Archie is suggesting is that you need to learn how to train atomic habits. You do that by getting better at handling chaos...
Because if you're anything like me, you hate feeling like no matter how hard you try, you can't seem to get out of your own way, allowing self-sabotage to cut you off at the knees right when you thought you were gonna get a win.
Or worse, feeling stuck by indecision because you no longer trust your own judgement....
I know I did, until I started applying what fancy men in white coats call a 'cognitive reframe'... but more on that later.
On the following page I'm gonna share with you a sure-fire method for finally saying ba-bye to self-sabotage & re-claiming your sovereign right to success, abundance & super human performance in every area of your life.
I want you to learn to punch self-sabotage in the throat, crippling it with a single blow that will send it packing like the little b*tch it really is.
We are gonna go super deep into your subconscious programming. We're gonna expose all the ways you've been cutting yourself off from the life you desire, no f*ck that, the life you DESERVE - and we're gonna give you the tools to never ever again give in to the self-sabotaging behaviours of your past.
During this program, you'll build a powerful habit stack you can call upon any time you need a wicked performance boost, whilst gaining a new perspective on Who You Truly Are, what you actually want from life, and how to get it!
If you've tried everything else, and you're sick of not getting the results you want, it's time to get off the mf'ing hamster wheel...
Yeah Bro, me too!
I've been there. It sucks.
Being a 30 Year-old Man who's still hasn't cracked the success code is tough!
I spent more than a decade "working on myself" and buying programs, courses, coaching sessions, hell, even counselling!
And I just ended up "woke, but broke".
I could never seem to get the results I wanted.
Maybe you can relate to what I'm saying?
If you're anything like me:
Several years into my first business, I recognised that to grow the business I needed to grow myself. So began a lifelong quest to change who I was.
As most personal development journeys begin, I bought every book & CD course (yup, I'm that old!), enrolled in weekend seminars & meditation retreats and discovered teachers like Tony Robbins, the Dalai Lama, Robin Sharma, Abraham-Hicks, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Robert Kiyosaki, and the foundational classics of Wallace Wattles, Dale Carnegie & Napoleon Hill.
From NLP, affirmations & belief clearing to meditation, metaphysics & Buddhism, I spent the best part of the next decade devouring as much self-help, personal development & spiritual growth information as I could find.
And to be honest, my mind expanded faster & further than my business.
I had a wealth of knowledge, but was still broke AF, living paycheque to paycheque and struggling to get to terms with my own success.
So the doubt crept in. What was I doing wrong? What was I missing? Why wasn't this working?
As much as my mental perspective had shifted, my physical reality was much the same.
Mostly broke. Feigning success, with massive imposter syndrome. Dissolution of an 8-year relationship because of my inability to provide financial stability (this would become a repetitive pattern for me).
And generally feeling incomplete, unsatisfied and disillusioned.
Can you relate to any of this?
don't worry, there is light at the end of the tunnel...
Eventually it dawned on me that the reason all those books and gurus hadn't helped me, was because I had only been focussing on 50% of the answer.
My mind was on fire - I was mentally & spiritually off into the stratosphere - but my physical reality seemed locked into a loop of old patterns.
Have you ever felt that way? Like you've got half the answer? But the some part of the solution just keeps eluding you?
It sucks right!
When you know that you know what to do, but the results just are not showing up. It's draining. It's frustrating. And it's the #1 reason people give up on their dreams.
So I went deeper. What was missing? How could I take what I knew mentally, and turn it into real-world success?...
High-Ticket Affiliate Marketing Program & Mastermind Group
'Rich Dad' Real Estate Training Course & Private Coaching
NLP Personal Development Seminar & Coaching Program
It wasn't until I fully comprehended that I was the problem that I was finally able to make serious shifts in my personal growth.
Isn't it funny - whenever you have challenges, problems & 'failures', guess who's there EVERY time... You!
You see, the thing that is holding you back is probably the same thing that was holding me back from getting success from any of the massive investments I'd made in myself & my businesses...
More specifically, my own negative self-talk.
The inner dialogue we have with ourselves is so incredibly powerful because it comes straight out of our subconscious mind - which is the single most controlling part of our self, as it's stacked full of allllll of the programming we've dumped into our brains since birth.
So it wasn't about finding external solutions, it was all about tapping deeper within and becoming aware of what was really going on in my own head.
And here's what I found out...
There was generally 7 things that kept showing up as reasons (excuses) why I wasn't getting to where I wanted to be.
I call these the '7 Deadly Sins' of Self-Sabotage...
Yup, B.S - Belief Systems.
The 7 Deadly Sins listed above are powered by your belief systems - the things you believe to be true about Who You Really Are.
Maybe there's one that stands out, maybe a few?
I've certainly experienced a good chunk of these little bastards during my process of self-transformation.
But it wasn't until I started to become consciously aware that these 'sins' even existed, and then began to actively probe deeper into them - that I was able to start shutting them down.
I achieved that by deliberately pushing myself into uncomfortable situations, by challenging myself physically, mentally and emotionally...
In order to bring to the surface all the bullsh*t (the other B.S) that was floating around my head that was unconsciously directing the outcomes of my life.
See that's how the subconscious works.
95% of how we show up in the world (our beliefs, actions & character) is determined by the programs we have installed in the subconscious mind.
Think of it as your personal internal hard drive.
The subconscious is a brilliant piece of biological engineering! It allows us to function without having to consciously think of every little word, action or behaviour.
Sometimes the programming gets a little buggy (just like when your computer malfunctions) when we try to make changes - like starting a new habit, or stopping an old one.
The subconscious is effectively a set of pre-programmed protocols that run on auto-pilot.
And it will only ever run the protocols it believes you want it to run.
The more often it runs a certain protocol - for example the "How to have a relationship" protocol - the easier it is for that protocol to run.
(This all has to do the with neurochemistry & synapses in the brain; basically the more often you fire off a certain thought or behaviour, the stronger that synaptic pathway becomes in your physical brain...)
So when you enter a new relationship, the brain starts to fire off its "Relationship protocol".
Now this might be a healthy protocol that supports positive, life-enhancing thoughts and behaviours... leading to a great relationship!
But sometimes the protocols no longer match the outcomes we are trying to achieve...
And there is no longer congruence between what we want (eg: a healthy long-term relationship) and the programming around that protocol.
This is how self-sabotage starts to show up.
The subconscious program that is running no longer supports the person (or result) you want to become.
So, what can you do about it?
If you've ever encountered negative programming, in the form of self-doubt, lack of confidence, poor quality relationships, feelings of lack, 'not-enoughness' or anything that is not getting you closer to your goals, then you're in the right place!
When you join me for the Intentional Chaos™ Coaching Program, you will face every one of the '7 Deadly Sins' and finally be able to recognise exactly how they are showing up for you, and how they are preventing your god-given right to total bad-assery from exploding into the world.
Over 8 weeks we will work together to confront your inner critic, by bringing your self-talk to the surface so we can hold it up to the light and dissolve it once and for all.
By completing Intentional Chaos™ you will annihilate the '7 Deadly Sins' by replacing them with a powerful cocktail of antidotes that not only help you move past what's holding you back right now - but...
Gives you the ability to Thrive (and actually grow stronger) whenever life throws difficulty, shock & chaos at you in the future.
Intentional Chaos Coaching™ gives you a massive boost of:
That's what you might be saying to yourself…
The little voice in your head is probably muttering things like…
“This all sounds great”…. “But I'm totally different and this won't work on the things I need to change”….
However, I will personally GUARANTEE you it will.
You see, if for some strange reason you try the strategies outlined in this coaching program and they don’t GENUINELY transform your life in at least 1 Major Area, I’ll refund you the cost of the program plus you can keep lifetime access to every tool, technique & resource we cover just for the inconvenience.
After you complete this Coaching Program…
Intentional Chaos™ is an intensive coaching, training & mentorship program designed to challenge you to your very core - in order to reveal your deepest, dirtiest, sneakiest and most pervasively cruel self-talk.
Weekly challenges confront your physical, emotional & psychic senses so that the 'real you' shows up - you know that whiney voice that says "hey, stay in bed instead of working out" or "the diet starts tomorrow, today is for cake!"
Limiting self-talk is the #1 reason you are not where you want to be in life.
No matter how much you invoke the Law of Attraction, scream your power mantras and visualise living your dream life, if your inner self is not congruent to what you want, you will continue to repeat the cycles of self-sabotage that got you here...
The awesome news is that we are going to annihilate all of that negative BS (Belief Systems) that your self-talk is built on.
And replace it with uplifting, positive, unflinching bad-assery. Can I get a Hoo-Ra!?
Here's what the 8-Week program will do for you...
Torch Selfishness & Weakness to Build Confidence...
Kick Laziness in the Face & Condition Yourself for Success...
Ditch the Distraction B*tch by Tapping Your Primal Powers...
Transmute Restlessness by Finding your Inner Calmness...
Eliminate Greed & Indulgence by Developing Zen-Like Control...
Say Farewell to Fragility, Build Resilience & Increased Capacity...
Bring it all together as we Consolidate & Compound for deep experience...
Raise Comprehension & Define Character in the final powerful week...
Guess What? This coaching program is not just about the 8-weeks we spend together...
It's about giving you the tools, techniques & internal resources you need to continue to expand your life and attract Abundance, Success, Love & just have a great fricken time in ANY area you feel stuck, or are hungry to level-up in.
You'll become 100% capable of stacking wins in any area of your life...
It's time to make a decision...
Are you gonna keep doing what you've been doing, and continue to get the same results you've always gotten...
Or are you gonna try something new that will challenge you in ways you can't even imagine - and reveal the Man you wish to Become...
If your answer is "HELL YES" all you need to do is click below to get instant access the Intentional Chaos™ Coaching Program...
During Your Coaching Sessions...
Gimme a Hell Yeah!! and click the damn button...
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May the beast man Win!
Why the heck not eh... Let's round it out to a full 90 Day Coaching Program!! Whether you use it or not, I'll give you a complimentary extra month (4 x 45 min sessions) of private coaching.
When you complete the 8-Week Program, I'll throw in an BONUS Complimentary 90 Minute coaching call to consolidate everything you learned in the program.
We'll lock in your new habit protocols, create your Chaos Calendar™, install your Life Vision & Character Codes™.
I want to make sure that this will be the single most transformative coaching experience you'll ever have.
Ok, so here's everything you're gonna get as soon as you claim your exclusive access today:
I 100% Guarantee that this program will help you transform your life in a meaningful & significant way...
Or I'll personally refund the full value of the program.
I'll even take it one step further...
If you commit to completing this program and it doesn't SIGNIFICANTLY transform at least 1 area of your life, let me know and I’ll refund you the cost of the program... plus I'll let you keep ALL of your bonuses - including unlimited, always & forever access to your online courses, tools, downloads... the Lot!
That's right. You don't even have to send anything back. Just email me or get in touch with my team and I'll give you back your full fee with no questions asked.
How's that for fair?
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*The Intentional Chaos™ Coaching Program should sell for $1,620 but for a limited time (until all seats are booked) I'm reducing the price to $444 to help as many bad-asses as possible to permanently accelerate their transformation.
Thanks for taking the time to read this page and I look forward to working with you soon!
P.S. In case you're one of those people who just skip to the end of the letter, here's the deal:
I'm giving you an exclusive special offer to join me for my Intentional Chaos Coaching Program. Worth $1,620, you'll get it for just $444!
We work together for 8-Weeks to annihilate self-sabotage & create permanent change in 2 major life areas. You get 8 x 60 min. weekly coaching calls + 7-Day support (plus a TON of bonus coaching & tools)...
P.P.S This is a very limited offer because I've only got enough time in my calendar to book a limited number of new clients. Once all seats are filled (and I don’t know how long this will take) this offer will go back to its full price of $1,620. So act now and get your exclusive offer.
P.P.P.S I’m so confident this program will have a profound impact on your life, that if it doesn't, let me know and I'll even give you back the money you spent on the program. You don't even need to send anything back.
You get to keep all materials and Bonuses for ever!
You won't regret it.
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